There are families that are friendly, but there are not very good ones. How do you manage to create a warm atmosphere in the family? And is it possible? Maybe. All in your hands.
Instructions
Step 1
Creating a good, warm, soulful atmosphere at home is the business of every family member. Involve everyone who lives in your home.
What can be done to create soulfulness?
Start discussing the day's business in the evening. Share good news and current tasks. It is important to share exactly what is good, and not to complain and discuss "all sorts of goats." Try to first tell how the initiator is - it's contagious. And the rest, too, after some time will want to share good news with you.
Step 2
Organize regular movie watching and discuss what is happening. You will see the views of your family on the world, learn their opinion. When a person shares his opinion, he draws closer to others. And teach children to reflect on what they see, and not just mindlessly stare at the TV.
Step 3
Organize a joint long-term project, such as vacation planning or renovation. Get everyone involved. Let everyone do their part. If you are traveling to an unfamiliar country, then let everyone be responsible for a certain part. Someone for how to eat, and someone for renting a car or how to get to the place, someone else for booking a hotel, etc. It is important, if something goes wrong, not to criticize. And take it as an unexpected turn of events in the trip.
Step 4
And of course, every family has its own holidays. Birthdays, anniversaries, etc. - try to make them unforgettable and fun. So that in 10 years you can remember them and say: "yes that was great!"
Have occasional get-togethers looking at photos and remembering your travels. These memories bring people closer together.
Try to do at least a small thing every day to build a warm relationship. And after a while, your family will become more friendly.
