You have lived together for quite a long time. It seems that you know everything about each other. Of course, there were minor quarrels and misunderstandings, as in all families. And suddenly the wife declares that she is leaving you. How to figure out what happened? How to get your wife back?
Instructions
Step 1
First you need to figure out for yourself what happened. Talk to your wife.
Step 2
Women are more refined natures, their inner world is much more vulnerable. Sometimes they suffer for a long time from a phrase you accidentally threw, in offense they close themselves off from communication, do not try to express what they are unhappy with.
Step 3
Consider your behavior. Maybe lately you have paid too little attention to your wife and are now reaping the fruits of your indifference. After all, giving gifts on duty and formally throwing "How are you?" - this does not mean to be aware of her experiences. One should speak with a woman sincerely, without falsity and indifference in the voice.
Step 4
Overcome your selfishness. You think that your wife owes everything to you, your efforts and worries about the family, that she sits on everything ready. Many men think so. But you forget that your wife creates comfort and warmth in your home, brings up your children. And these are heavy loads. And not just physical ones. How much moral strength does domestic work take when the same thing is endless: cooking, washing, cleaning, homework.
Step 5
And if she also goes to work? After all, not everything is going smoothly there either: a strict boss, rush jobs, not always balanced colleagues or visitors. Give your wife a chance to rest. Offer to go out in the countryside for a weekend together. There you can talk frankly with her about all family troubles, admit your guilt and offer an attempt to start building a new relationship.
Step 6
Invite your wife to the theater, to the exhibition. In such a festive atmosphere, she will feel wonderful and interesting again, the theatrical atmosphere will calm her down, set her in a lyrical mood, and a further dinner at the restaurant may give an opportunity to have a leisurely conversation, remember all the good things that you had for how many years and give a chance to start new family life.
Step 7
Remember what your wife has long dreamed of? Make her dream come true. And you will see how her eyes will warm.
