It happens that even the greatest love leaves us, and the understanding comes that there is no longer a loved one nearby. Increasingly, thoughts of divorce are flashing. How can you part with your spouse in a civilized way and avoid scandals, showdowns and reproaches?
Instructions
Step 1
Inform about the breakup in person. You can not report the breakdown of relations using SMS, e-mail, phone call. In this way, you will only demonstrate your disrespect for your husband. It is necessary to meet and talk face to face. Thus, you will help your partner to get over the breakup easier, to get answers to his questions. Otherwise, you simply deprive him of the chance to fully understand the current situation and understand what the problem is, why it is necessary to leave.
Step 2
Do not discuss your upcoming breakup in front of others. The conversation should take place in private and not in a public place. A cafe, restaurant and other establishments are in no way suitable for these purposes. Before you start a conversation, make an introduction that will prepare your ex-loved one for bad news.
Step 3
Talk to your husband about your situation. Try to explain to your spouse that you are not satisfied with your life together, indicate the reasons that prompted the decision to break up. Also decide on the division of jointly acquired property, and if there are children - guardianship over them.
Step 4
Let go of your guilt. An ex-partner may have a hard time breaking up, constantly pouring out his grief to you. But you don't have to become a "vest" for him, where he can cry at any moment. Give him the opportunity to go through this period on his own or turn to friends, a psychologist for help.
Step 5
Don't go back and change your decision. If you doubt your deed, rush back and forth, then thereby only aggravate the situation and make your partner more painful. Try to limit communication with your husband for a certain time (for example, a month), so that you will not be able to change your mind every day.
Step 6
Treat your ex-spouse with respect. After you meet a new friend, avoid phrases in communication with him that are unflattering about your past partner.
