Forgot about an important date - a scandal! Did not fulfill the promise made three years ago - again a scandal! A woman will find a million reasons to throw a tantrum to her man. However, psychologists are sure that such behavior will not lead to good. Sooner or later, a loved one will get tired of this attitude towards him, and the door will slam behind him. Therefore, you need to try very hard not to make a scandal for your husband. Even when it seems that one simply cannot do without a quarrel.
Instructions
Step 1
If the reason that pissed you off was the drunken state of your spouse, do not swear. All the same, you will not achieve the desired result. The best tactic is to completely ignore your tipsy spouse. Do not enter into verbal battles with him, but rather try to quickly put him to bed. Talk in the morning - with a fresh mind. Psychologists assure: the biggest plus of this method is that by the morning you will already carefully think over everything you want to say, and you will be able to convey the necessary information to the guilty husband calmly. The man himself, on a much sober head, will perceive your words much clearer and clearer.
Step 2
In the case when your man went to a meeting with friends, but did not take you with him, did not warn you, or even turned off the phone, you can also do without a scandal. Try to calm down by his arrival. To do this, breathe deeply, at least 10 times. This way you can calm down faster. Meet your husband as usual. It can even be emphatically affectionate. Feed, ask how the evening went, as friends. But don't turn the conversation into an interrogation. And then the next day "plan" yourself a similar outing from home to a bachelorette party. Warn your husband about this at the last moment. And, of course, you won't take it with you either. And turn off the phone.
Step 3
Psychologists assure: you want to make a scandal - analyze the situation around. There must be a reason for dissatisfaction with the whole world and with a husband, in particular. Sometimes she can get into trouble at work. And if you understand that to be rude and rude to your husband pulls you after the next dragging of the boss, stop. Better to transfer your boiling energy to a peaceful channel - figure out how to rehabilitate yourself at work or what to answer to your boss.
Step 4
Or maybe you just haven't rested for a long time. When you feel that your husband annoys you so much that he wants to make a scandal for him out of the blue, get ready for vacation. Even if it is small, for two days. You will have time to sleep off, rest and think about why you take out the accumulated evil on your spouse. And then, perhaps, it will become easier for you to forgive him for certain shortcomings that, before the rest, caused powerless anger in you.
Step 5
If you're going to throw a tantrum on your husband for cheating, stop. Psychologists in this case say that it is the scandal that the offending spouse is seeking from you. So it will become easier for him - after all, he is "punished". Despite the pain that this kind of news has caused you, try to calm down and pull yourself together. Take a break, be alone. At the same time, decide for yourself whether it is worth staying close to such a person. After a short break, talk to your husband calmly. This is what will be the most difficult for him.
