You can look forward to divorce and dream when the coveted testimony will be received. But divorce is always painful, sad and hard, even despite all his lust.
Many people position divorce as a holiday. Still, salvation from the shackles holding you back - what could be better and more fun? Many of them even believe that divorce is their new happiness, opening up horizons for new achievements and victories. But…
Divorce always hurts
For their dissatisfaction with each other, people often forget that there is no one, but they are still a family. More precisely, they were a family. There were native people who are so crooked, completely wrong, but already worn to each other parts of the whole. Often, the discovery that ex-spouses miss each other after a divorce turns out to be an unexpected revelation, for which neither of them was ready in any way. And it would be worth it.
The familiar is sometimes preferable to the new
Be that as it may, a person does not like change. There are quite definite psychological reasons for this. That is why even long-awaited changes in our life bring discomfort and often disappointment.
The first reaction to such stress is the desire to return everything as it was. This is logical and understandable, but it will pass.
Mutual friends are not really shared at all
With friends, things are quite special. It is also difficult for them, as they have to choose. It would seem that we are all adults and it is stupid to be faced with a choice in such a situation, but you cannot hide your Inner Child.
Those friends who chose your side after the divorce will become a kind of reminder of happy moments with your ex-spouse, and it will be difficult, given that all the bad things are forgotten sooner or later, and the good ones are almost not. Are you ready?
