Almost every family, probably, faced such a problem when their children simply did not respect them. And how in such a situation can you make children respect themselves? How can you influence them?
Scientists believe that it is respect for elders that entails all good and kind deeds. In the event that a child has absolutely no respect for his parents and, in general, for his elders, then he is prone to committing bad deeds.
More and more children are no longer respecting adults, and in particular their parents. Parents need to educate their child about the culture of communication with adults from a very early age. Until the parents really show that they can be punished properly, no phrases, for example: “they don’t talk to their parents like that,” will not help. And after you show “who is boss in the house,” not a trace of rudeness will remain, and due to punishment, restrictions on the computer or TV, well, or any influential restrictions will be enough.
First you need to pay attention to your behavior and actions. You need to reconsider your views, pay attention to your speech, remove nasty and boorish words from your speech, remembering that children follow an example from adults, but if you cannot completely get rid of such vocabulary, then get rid of such speech at least - would be with a child. Instead, start teaching your children about giving up seats on the bus to your elders, using “you,” and not interrupting during a conversation. These are the elementary rules that prevent your parents from being dismissive.
Relations in the family play an important role in the upbringing of a child. Father and mother should respect each other, show parental authority to their children. When a child is rude to one of the parents, the other should not be neutral about it. First of all, start teaching your children to show gratitude, without which respect cannot be achieved. A grateful person values other people, including their parents.
From an early age, boys need to be taught to let girls, women, grandmothers pass forward, open the door in a suitable situation, give a hand somewhere, help carry bags, give way, in general, to be a man. Best of all, he will succeed when he follows an example from his father or grandfather. After all, children always look at their parents first, and then act as they wish. Dad often needs to show his respect for mom, give some gifts, show respect and love. For a girl, a mother should become a faithful friend who will always support and understand. Mom consults with her daughter so that she trusts her. Hosting family evenings once a week is good for building relationships and trust.
The main thing is to correctly start raising a child from an early age, and then there will be order in the family. Change yourself and change your children
