A child's knowledge of the world begins with his relationship in the family. In preschool age, children spend a lot of time with their parents and take over their behavior. During this period, it is important to develop good qualities in the child and create a favorable atmosphere around him.
For example, parents are on the verge of divorce, constantly quarreling, shouting, and frustrating at the child. This is normal on their part. How does a preschooler see it? He is scared, it seems that the world is crumbling, they do not love him and no one needs him. Further, this can lead to a mental disorder, a rude attitude towards parents and others, low self-esteem. The relationship with the other half will constantly collapse.
The opposite situation: parents live in perfect harmony, communicate politely and amicably, no one raises their voice to anyone. In this situation, the child will grow up strong, confident, friendly and calm. He will be able to build his relationship with his soul mate harmoniously.
The child is strongly influenced by the environment in which he grows up, the attitude towards him, the behavior of the adults around him, the words that are spoken in his address.
Many parents stop noticing their children for their problems. They try to earn money in order to feed their families, but the pressure of these problems makes them rude to children, yelling at them. There is no time for normal communication. This often happens in single parent families. Such parents do not know their children and do not seek to get to know them. The principle of survival becomes the main thing, not the principle of humanity. Children in such families prefer to go out late so as not to see their parents for as long as possible.
The saddest fact is that such a child, most likely, will avoid people, will not be able to build his relationship with a couple in the future, or will generally withdraw into himself. He will also have many complexes, because the parents do not have time to praise their child for anything. Unfortunately, the time is only to scold for something not done.
Any hurt inflicted on a child in childhood will affect his future and the future of his relationship with his parents. It is very difficult to forget such grievances, especially if the parents consider it all unimportant and simply cannot or do not want to apologize for such circumstances. When a child grows up, his communication with his parents may come to naught. There may not even be a birthday call. Any parent should think about what he is doing for his future child. Perhaps now is the time to just chat with him in order to solve problems that may arise in the future.
