“The water does not flow under the lying stone!” - says popular wisdom. The situation is exactly the same in such a delicate issue as the creation of a family. Almost every girl wants her to have a good husband. At the same time, modesty, shyness prevent her from taking the initiative. And then the dream of a good husband can remain a dream for a long time. Therefore, one should not hope that on the threshold of her house one fine morning there will be an equally beautiful "prince" with a gorgeous bouquet of flowers. You have to forge your happiness with your own hands!
Instructions
Step 1
“My heart skipped a beat!” - they often say in such cases. And indeed: he seems to be an unremarkable guy, there is nothing special about him, and the girl just looked at him - and can think of no one else. And often they then get very strong, loving, exemplary families. Therefore, sometimes a girl does not hurt to listen to her heart. It rarely cheats!
Step 2
A girl, even idealizing a guy she likes (and this is completely natural and understandable!), Will still instinctively ask herself the question: “Can he become a good father? Will he love our children, take care of them? If she answers this question in the affirmative, without hesitation, then this guy is quite suitable for the role of husband. If she has doubts (even weak, vague ones), then she must think very well whether to connect her fate with such a person!
Step 3
“For the marriage to be happy, the husband and wife must be of the same dough!” - this is how the father instructed his daughter in the famous novel “Gone with the Wind”. He tried to convince his daughter that her falling in love with the son of a neighbor-planter would not lead to anything good: they were painfully different, literally in everything! And he was right. Although the daughter, of course, at first stubbornly disagreed with the parent. Indeed, if a young man and a girl have completely different characters, habits, hobbies, if what she likes leads him to death, and vice versa.
Step 4
Ask yourself a question: he seems to you the best guy in the world, but do you agree to literally "break" yourself for him, constantly give in, make compromises, and not in trifles, but in matters of principle? If not, then this person is definitely not suitable for your husband.
Step 5
Much annoys you in him, and he, accordingly, in you? Fate itself indicates: you are not suitable for each other! Otherwise, you would be much more relaxed about the shortcomings, or you would not notice them at all.
