"Young green" - this is how they usually say about young people, implying their inexperience, ardor and haste in solving various issues. Haste in marriage is considered especially inappropriate. According to statistics, the bitter disappointment from an unsuccessful marriage is most experienced by girls, since they tend to idealize a man. Before tying yourself with family ties, it is recommended to get to know the chosen one better.
During courtship, partners try to appear better than they really are. A few simple steps will help you find out the real qualities of a person:
1. "Woman-lover or misogynist." Observe how your chosen one behaves in relation to other women: how he speaks about his mother (sister, ex-girlfriend, old lady-neighbor, etc.), whether he gives way to pregnant and elderly people in public transport, etc.
2. "Gentleman's set". Remember if a man always opens the door in front of you, gives a hand when exiting a transport, helps carry heavy bags, etc.
3. "A foray into someone else's territory." Examine the apartment of the chosen one: with whom he lives, order / disorder, etc. Even if at first glance everything is tidied up, do not be too lazy to accidentally look into the closet: true lazy people will simply remove all visible clutter inside, without putting it on the shelves. Check the contents of the refrigerator for the availability of food - a "home" man always buys an assortment a week in advance. Do not forget to look into the bathroom - girls love to "check in" there, and if the guy has someone else besides you, you will definitely notice traces of a woman's presence in the form of hair on a comb and so on.
4. "Testing by battle". Men tend to express themselves in uncomfortable conditions. Take a camping trip, for example. If a guy takes on all male responsibilities: he supports you when going down / ascending a mountain or hill, makes a fire, makes sure you feel comfortable, worries if you are dressed warmly, and steadfastly endures your little whims like: “I'm tired, I want eat, I want to go home … etc.”, while still having time to entertain you, you can safely marry him.
