A woman meets the very man she has dreamed of all her life. They have a wonderful and magnificent future ahead, but there is one small snag - the chosen one already has a child from a previous marriage. Of course, at first, in the days of romance, women do not care about this, but soon family life will begin, in which such a fact simply cannot be ignored.
“Former” parents simply do not exist, and that is why your chosen one will not stop communicating with his child. Often, such manifestations of care can cause jealousy and resentment in a woman, but one cannot follow the lead of these feelings and it is impossible to arrange endless barriers in the communication between the father and the child. A woman needs to respect the feelings of her husband and establish contact with the baby, who also claims the father's attention.
If you find yourself in this situation, try to put yourself in the child's place. He recently lived in the calm and quiet world of his family, but then a woman comes and takes his dad from him. For the psyche, this is a very stressful situation. The child takes a long time to rethink the experience. If you decide to win the baby's favor, be patient, because the weekend will not be enough to win the baby's heart.
Remember that young children are great psychologists who subconsciously pick up lies, so you need to be sincere. Take an interest in the child's worries and life, come up with a special "secret" that you will share only with him, but do not bribe his trust and affection with money or candy.
You must remember that the child's real mother is a close and dear person to him, so you should not speak badly about her in front of him, even if she speaks badly about you. Any careless word addressed to his mother will cancel out all your attempts to gain favor.
At the same time, you should not get carried away with raising someone who is not your own child. If you literally every second say comments on any occasion, you will soon hear: “You are not my mother,” and he will stop listening to you altogether. Be gentle and don't let it sit around your neck. Act in hints, say that the father would not do that.
Give your child more time with dad and present ideas to her husband.
