The first date is an important event, which is expected and feared. And the more attractive the person with whom you are scheduled to meet, the more you will worry, because the future of the relationship largely depends on the first date.
Instructions
Step 1
Be confident in yourself and your chances of winning the person you like will increase significantly. Showcase your originality. Improvise and offer to spend the first date in an unusual place: on the rooftop, on the beach, etc.
Step 2
Show yourself an interesting, erudite and well-read conversationalist with a good sense of humor. If you know in advance some of the interests of the person with whom you will have a date, you can prepare in advance for a conversation about his hobbies: read the relevant literature, search for information on the Internet.
Step 3
Control your gestures, facial expressions and looks. Excessive emotionality or, conversely, tightness can make an unfavorable impression. Find a middle ground - be free, relaxed and balanced.
Step 4
Don't be afraid to talk about what you don't know, just don't pretend that you understand the subject. Ask your interlocutor to enlighten you, listen carefully and ask questions. This behavior will demonstrate your interest in communication, curiosity and openness. Most of all, this model of behavior is suitable for girls - guys are very fond of talking about what they are well versed in and what is interesting for them.
Step 5
Be gentle. On the first date, you shouldn't be interested in something very personal and intimate. Talking about money, illness, previous relationships and marriages is also discouraged.
Step 6
Don't go overboard with showing a sense of humor. It is worth joking only on neutral topics, because knowing a person poorly, you can accidentally touch an area that is painful for him. Better to remember some stories from your travels, school life, etc.
Step 7
Drink in moderation. A couple of cocktails or glasses of wine are not forbidden, but you should not drink more, otherwise you will cease to control yourself, and this can lead to unpleasant consequences. In addition, a person who drinks a lot of alcohol is more likely to cause dislike.
Step 8
When communicating, ignore the cute members of the opposite sex around you. Watching every interesting object, you insult and humiliate the person who came on a date to you.
