The success of the first date largely depends not only on what you say and how you behave, but also on the place of the meeting. How do you know which of the options will be successful and which will be a complete failure?
A classic and far from the worst place for a first date can be a cafe. But you need to consider some nuances. First, give up expensive restaurants right away - this can scare off an average-income girl, or, on the contrary, rivet her attention, but not to your person, but to your wallet. Secondly, pubs and cafe-canteens are also not suitable for a date, because you are not going to get drunk and order a set lunch.
It is most appropriate to choose a small cafe or coffee shop, preferably with a small round table. In addition, you can go to a themed place (sushi bar, Italian pizzeria or any art cafe), but it is better to agree about this in advance. If you know some of the girl's preferences for drinks or atmosphere, offer her two options. It is highly desirable that these places are not on the outskirts of the city, but at a distance of about 1-2 bus stops: suddenly you want to walk on foot.
Choosing a theater performance or a movie show for a first date is a double-edged sword. The fact is that for about 2 hours you will not be able to communicate, therefore, it will be difficult for you to understand whether you missed or not. But the cultural program has a plus: you will not have to puzzle over the meeting place (wait for it at the main entrance), and after watching you will not be tormented by sucking topics for conversation out of your finger. Be that as it may, if you decide to go “to a meeting with art,” she should choose a performance or film, but you should buy tickets. “Kissing spots” on the first date are inappropriate. The ideal solution would be to purchase tickets to the middle of the hall.
Mini-option for establishing contact - attraction 5D. As a rule, a video clip lasts no more than 5 minutes, but this is quite enough to get a charge of emotions and dynamics. And also it will not distract her much from your person.
Romantic options for spending time together, such as a boat trip or river tram ride, ice skating or going to the zoo, can embarrass her or you, because if you don't like each other, you won't be able to escape sooner. But if a spark of mutual sympathy and flirting has run between you, these places are almost perfect. And if you met her in a resort town, no doubt, take her to the embankment - towards the warm breeze and the romantic rustle of the waves.
