We spend a lot of time choosing work, new clothes or equipment. When selecting, we have a number of parameters, according to which we make a choice: suitable - we take, not suitable - we leave. The same scheme applies to a man who seems to us to be our soul mate.
It is necessary
Paper, pen and quiet room
Instructions
Step 1
Using the Mind: Imagine your ideal man and write his characteristics on paper: appearance, character traits, hobbies, and more. You should forget about those men who are next to you and with whom you are dating. Unleash your dreams!
Step 2
Prioritize the previously described traits of your significant other from 1 to 3 (1 is the least significant trait, 2 is the average degree of significance, 3 is the most significant. For example, in the previous step it turned out: goes in for sports, earns 50,000 rubles a month, loves children You are not yet ready for children and want them only in the future, so we set this line to 1. You are sure: a man is the breadwinner of the family and a breadwinner, respectively, the level of income is very important and we set him a coefficient of 3. Do sports yourself from time to time, but always in good physical shape, so this trait received a degree of 2.
Step 3
You should divide a sheet of paper into two columns and head them "There is for (the name of the man)" and "No for (the name of the man)". And now take a portrait of your ideal and spread the previously written features to these columns: the trait of character coincided - we write in the column "Have (the name of the man)", did not match - "No at (the name of the man)". After that, next to each line, put down the coefficient of significance and sum them up. As a result, you get the number and sum of the degrees of significance for you that coincided and did not coincide with the features of the ideal soul mate and the current chosen one.
Step 4
We use our senses: we want to become better for him: watch his favorite movie, learn how to cook his favorite dishes, lose weight and much more. This is a positive indicator for a man, if at the same time you do not dissolve in the chosen one and forget about your interests, about yourself. Track - during self-development for the benefit of relations with a man, what is left of you.
Step 5
Popular wisdom and psychologists say that the indicator of silence is important. With the second half, it should be comfortable to be silent for hours and at the same time not feel discomfort, feeling emptiness. It's just good for you to be together. At the same time, each other's desires are understood on a non-verbal level (without words), because you feel each other.
Step 6
Imagine that you and a man are left alone in a room without books, a computer or a TV for a week. There is no way to go anywhere or meet someone else. Will you get bored together? If yes - then you should think about why, if not - then this is it, your man!
