It is generally accepted that it is a man who should take the first step in a relationship. And the girls expect declarations of love from the guys. However, if you have feelings for your partner, why not admit it first? The main thing is to choose exactly how you want to tell about your love.
It is necessary
- - postcard;
- - products for a romantic dinner.
Instructions
Step 1
Tune in to confession. Love is a strong feeling, so listen to yourself before talking about it. Do you really love the person next to you? Maybe you take ordinary sympathy for love. In this matter, it is better not to rush to conclusions, because it is never too late to say “I love”. But if you are sure that you are experiencing the most tender feelings, then feel free to talk about them.
Step 2
Don't back down. If you decide to take such an important step, do not allow yourself to relax or give free rein to your fears. Surely, before such an event, you will be tormented by doubts: whether you are doing the right thing, that you are the first to confess your love, whether he will reciprocate, what your words will lead to, whether the relationship will deteriorate. Drive these thoughts out of your head. Be sure of the correctness of your decision, do not set yourself up for negativity.
Step 3
Think about how you will tell your boyfriend how you feel. A romantic evening can be organized. Cook his favorite dish, light the candles. A romantic setting will not only tune him in the right way, but will also help you. Dim the lights, turn on nice music. In such an atmosphere, it will be easier for you to open your soul to the young man and say everything that you feel about him. If you can't make up your mind to say important words out loud, write them on a postcard.
Step 4
Do not demand mutual confessions from a guy if he does not pronounce them immediately after your confession. Do not rush to draw conclusions and break off relations. Perhaps he is confused or even shocked by what happened. Some males are not at all as decisive as their halves think. It may take him a while to realize what happened. Don't worry, he will definitely appreciate your courage. Well, if not, don't be discouraged. So this is simply not the person who should be next to you. You do not need to close in yourself and never talk to young people about feelings again. On the contrary, be proud of yourself, because you were open and honest.
