For some couples, there is a big age difference when the man is several years older than the girl. In such a relationship, problems, friction and disagreements can arise that can cloud a happy romance.
Instructions
Step 1
Discuss your vision for the future. Make sure you want the same thing. If a man is going to marry you, have children and create a strong family, and you are not yet ready for this, it is better to find out everything in advance.
Step 2
Do not provoke him to jealousy, especially if the age difference is very large. Mentally, the man will compare himself to your peers, who are likely to look more fit and have other benefits.
Step 3
Try to match your loved one. If your man wears expensive and stylish suits, do not wear frivolous open blouses. Makeup should also be solid and not too provocative. Mentally evaluate yourself from the outside so that you do not look together like a father and daughter.
Step 4
Don't try to remake your loved one. Adults have an established system of values, attitudes and interests, so it is very difficult to change them. If you constantly impose your opinion on a man, he may not stand it and leave.
Step 5
Listen to his opinion. Even a slight difference in the age of a man can turn in his favor - he saw more, knows more and is wiser. Show that you trust him, let him be the elder and solve your problems. After all, men need to feel needed and useful to their girlfriend.
Step 6
Do not be frivolous, try to read more and develop in different directions. Grown men value girls not only for their appearance, but also for their inner world. If your interests and outlook on life are too different, the relationship will not last long.
Step 7
Ignore the gossip behind your back. Some people may, out of jealousy, tell you that you are dating only for money. Try to ignore them and don't try to explain anything. If you truly love each other, other people's stories won't ruin your relationship.
