Boys mature emotionally later than girls. Girls-schoolgirls write love poems and dream of dating, while their peers at this time chase with a ball on a vacant lot and are cut on a console. Therefore, girls fall in love with older guys, they seem to them more mature, intelligent and serious.
Tips for girls under 16
If you are 13, and your chosen one is more than 5 years older, it is better to immediately abandon the idea of a romantic relationship. In adolescence, even two years seems like a colossal difference. He simply will not see a girl in you, for him you will be a child. But if the difference is in the age of 3-4 years, you can try to attract his attention.
First, find out what he is into. Learn the football rules and the names of the players of his favorite team, if he is a football fan. Try to learn how to play his favorite computer game. Ask what kind of music he listens to. In general, make it so that he was interested with you. The main thing is not to overdo it. It is not necessary to agree with any word and just assent. Guys like girls with opinions of their own.
Second, don't try to look older than your age. A 15-year-old girl with bright makeup looks silly and vulgar. Don't try to demonstrate your "adulthood" with cigarettes, beer, and sex talk.
Third, do not impose yourself. Do not overwhelm the guy with messages and attack with phone calls with declarations of love. You should not guard him at the entrance, and then pretend as if you accidentally passed by. In this way, you will only win the title of "the youngster who runs after Vasya."
Tips for girls 16+
If you are under the age of 18, a guy who is older than you may refuse to date you for quite natural reasons. No one has yet canceled the criminal liability for the abuse of minors. Therefore, think a hundred times before starting a relationship with a grown guy.
Try to join the circle of his communication. Find out where he is most often through your mutual acquaintances. And then arrange a "random" meeting at a concert of his favorite band or in the gym where he works out. Come, say hello first, if he hasn't noticed you. You need to take the initiative, arouse his interest. If you cast languid glances from around the corner, you will stay in this corner.
Learn to flirt. Be feminine. Show him that you are not a little girl playing with dolls. Being an adult does not mean painting your lips with red lipstick and wears blouses with a deep neckline, even if you have something to show there. If you want to generate serious interest, it is better to demonstrate intelligence and a desire to develop. And don't lie about your age. The lie will be revealed sooner or later, and an unpleasant aftertaste will remain.
Any man likes to feel smart and strong. Ask him for advice as a more experienced person. Express your admiration for his talents and abilities. Don't try to emphasize the age difference if you don't want him to treat you like a little sister. Don't overdo your lolita game. The guy may be flattered by the attention of a young girl, but he is unlikely to want to endure children's whims for a long time.
