The relationship between a man and a woman can be confusing at times. Where feelings begin, logic recedes. Even more difficulties arise when there are not two, but three characters on the love scene: he, she and … she. And it can be very difficult to figure out how to behave.
Instructions
Step 1
Not everyone is capable of true love. Often there is a substitution of concepts when a habit or possessiveness towards a partner is taken for love. A man is not a pet that you can close at home. He is a person who has the right to decide how to act, with whom to be, to whom to feel feelings. If you turned out to be not the one he chose, first think about it and honestly answer yourself: do you really love him? Or does wounded pride speak in you?
Step 2
If you came to the conclusion that selfishness and resentment made you feel a storm of passions, or that a man who slipped away to another was only a valuable trophy in your personal hunt, back down. Choose another "prey" for yourself. If you think your feeling is real, stop and think. Love is not only communication and sex with the chosen one. It is also a special relationship to a person. Selfless, pure love suggests that you will experience the joy that your loved one is happy. Even on the other.
Step 3
However, people who are too passive, easily deviating from the goal run the risk of not waiting for their happiness at all. You can try to outplay your rival and switch the attention of the chosen one from her to yourself. Techniques in such a struggle, alas, are far from romantic, but more reminiscent of a military action plan. The main thing is to study the man, determine what he lacks, and give it to him. If necessary, artificially create conditions under which he will experience disharmony.
Step 4
Fully satisfied people are rare. Men in their hearts hope that there will be a woman who can guess and quench their secret thirst. And we are not talking about sex, it is not such a great value. One man needs to hear assurances that he is smart, another is waiting for recognition of his strength, the third lacks risk and adventure in life. By satisfying and nourishing a man's secret passion, you will make him addicted. Very, very many are susceptible to such moral addiction.
Step 5
Do things that will excite his imagination. The more often a man thinks and remembers about you, the more he gets used to your image, lets you into his world. Just refrain from eccentricity, not everyone understands it. Don't be intrusive, but be visible. Disappear from time to time. Play (but don't overplay or flirt). Do not rush a man with a choice and do not put pressure on him. Create a situation where it seems to him that he independently made the decision to leave his former girlfriend and start a relationship with you.
