For some men, acquaintance with an attractive girl is not difficult, but for others, the desire to ask a girl for a phone number and get to know her better becomes an insurmountable obstacle. How to get to know girls and ask them for their phone number to get their attention without looking intrusive?
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, you need to be confident. Do not apologize to the girl for taking her phone number, do not show shyness or discomfort. Think in advance where exactly you will write down the number that the girl will give you. Prepare a notebook or mobile phone.
Step 2
Always show seriousness when you pick up the phone, and then the girl will not be able to refuse you.
Step 3
Before asking a girl for a phone number, talk to her for a while. Then you can understand whether she is interesting to you as a person, and whether there are prospects for your communication and your relationship. If you don't feel uncomfortable, take action.
Step 4
Do not hesitate and do not hesitate: if the girl treats you well and already knows you well enough, she will give you a phone number at the first request. However, the final decision remains with her.
Step 5
If you see that she is not ready to give you a number yet, do not force her to do so. Excessive pressure can scare off the girl, and your relationship will deteriorate even more. If turned down, don't show regret and frustration. The girl needs to see that the refusal did not affect you, and then it will hurt her.
Step 6
In the process of further communication, find a suitable moment when both of you are carried away by an interesting topic of conversation, and again ask the girl for the phone. Show a little perseverance and confidence in the successful outcome of your actions, but do not be too intrusive.
Step 7
Do not pester the girl and approach the question you need subtly and thoughtfully. You can also give the girl your phone, suggesting to call when she wants. Perhaps this will help her to loosen up, and she will give you her number in return.
Step 8
Offer to make an appointment for the next meeting by phone, and the girl will undoubtedly want to meet with you if the time together gives her pleasure, and, in this case, she will immediately give you a phone number for communication.
