Sometimes girls naively think that the reason for the absence of a strong man in her life lies in the fact that she meets "the wrong" people. The idea that she herself does not attract a strong man comes to mind at the last moment. And completely in vain.
Increasingly, women ask themselves the question: "What should I be like to attract a strong man?"
To understand this, a woman must understand what meaning does she put into the concept of a strong man? And most importantly: does she really need such a man?
Strong man in society
It is no secret that the defining criterion of a strong man is consistency or the prospect of material security. Those women who declare that it does not matter at all to them are simply dissembling. After all, material wealth is a man's ability to adapt to social life. At the same time, show your masculine and human qualities in general.
The most important thing is that both: the woman and the man feel comfortable with each other in different life situations. It should be understood that a man with pronounced masculine qualities is not tough for all ladies. Being with a man who is used to making decisions on his own, leaving the last word for himself is not as easy as it seems.
From an early age, society inspires us that a girl-girl-woman should be kind, smiling and flexible. This does not mean at all that such a woman is soft-bodied and will not achieve anything in life. It is these qualities that a strong man values in a woman.
The female essence manifests itself in flexibility, which is so necessary in relationships with the opposite sex. In a woman, nature is inherent in giving an impulse to a man, encouraging him to be active, arousing a desire in him to create at home and at work. Unfortunately, many modern women are more accustomed to developing leadership qualities, showing anger and aggression.
At first glance, this is the owner of such qualities in most cases, can arouse interest on the part of a strong man. The question is - for how long? After all, a man, like a woman, is looking for reliability, stability and home peace in a partner.
Therefore, a girl should more often pay attention not only to her reflection in the mirror, but also to the peculiarities of her behavior in relations with a man.
Pros and cons of female behavior
Competing with a man when mutual sympathy has arisen is a gross mistake! A woman who behaves like a business woman in personal relationships often loses femininity in the eyes of a man. Sexual craving for her on the part of a man decreases, because she is perceived by him in this situation as a business partner.
Advice to dear ladies! Learn to listen to a man. Just learn to experience the same emotions that he does during a conversation. Develop the ability to agree with a man by showing your flexibility and plasticity.
This does not mean that a woman should hide her opinion and stupidly assent to her partner. You just need to remember that regularly, by imposing her opinion on a man, a woman kills in him the desire to discuss certain topics in the future. And emotional openness and trust is the key in any human relationship.
So, you don't have to be hypocritical to attract a strong man. Naturalness always attracts. Nature has endowed a woman with considerable positive character traits in order to find her man.
But trying to remake yourself, to be what you are not, will not help a man stay in a woman's life for a long time. So, lovely women! Listen to your intuition, develop femininity, be versatile. Find an exciting hobby for yourself, develop, be interesting, first of all for yourself.
Find a balance between wanting to be meek at home and independent in society. Finally, learn how to give and receive love! A strong man will definitely come to such a woman. He will hug and say that he was looking for just such a woman as you.
