Stereotypes say that when meeting a man, a man should take the initiative. Although in reality it makes no difference who starts the conversation first. Women find it a little easier if they know what to do.
What do you need to know to start hunting men?
There are many ways to meet an interesting man. But before you use them, you need to make sure that you are in the right state. First of all, you shouldn't care what the prospective man thinks of you. He can be anyone, but he will definitely not be the only man on the planet, this is very important to understand. You will not be able to get to know one, there will be others. Don't be afraid to appear insecure or arrogant. When you strike up an acquaintance, you can be bold, intriguing, and proactive. All these, by the way, are good, right qualities.
The worst thing that can happen to you after you try to talk to the man you like is refusal. But men, flattered by unexpected attention, very rarely refuse to meet. Of course, the object of acquaintance may have a girlfriend or he simply does not want to continue communication, but, as mentioned above, he is not the last. Set yourself up to be positive and look for the next victim.
Don't surf the internet
You can meet men anywhere. On the way to work, in your favorite cafe, in the cinema … Anywhere where people are gathering. Do not expect a special occasion, you see an interesting man - smile at him, and after he smiles back, talk to him. An exchange of glances and a smile helps to establish contact well, after that it is purely psychologically much easier to start a dialogue.
Unfortunately, Russian men, due to the peculiarities of their mentality, rarely start a conversation first. And if they start, moreover, with some strange or hackneyed phrase, it is likely that this is a pick-up artist, which means that there will be no sense from him.
Start the conversation right
Use the circumstances as a starting point for the conversation. Weather, noise, time, animals, work - all this can serve as an excellent start for a dialogue. If the conversation isn't going well, complimenting the man will help him relax and stop being nervous. Only the compliment should be appropriate and not too heavy, otherwise it will only exacerbate the possible awkwardness. If the conversation doesn't go well after that, say goodbye and leave. Such an acquaintance can hardly be called pleasant.
Don't try to be too seductive with a man from the start. You want to make an acquaintance, not jump into his bed with a running start. Be yourself.
If a man is quite sociable, and he likes you, in a few minutes he will take the initiative into his own hands. It is likely that he will ask you for a phone number, and then the acquaintance may develop according to the usual pattern.
