There are several types of parenting. Most often, parents bring up their children in the same style as they were brought up. The future of the child and the relationship between grown-up children and their elderly parents depend on what style of parenting the parents choose.
Instructions
Step 1
In order for a child to grow up happy, child psychologists recommend avoiding two extreme parenting methods - the authoritarian style and the permissive parenting style.
Step 2
You should not dictate to the child every step, depriving any freedom and self-expression.
Step 3
Do not allow the child too much, this generates not only pampering, but also a risk to the child's health, because he still does not have enough experience to assess the degree of his capabilities.
Step 4
A child can remember not very many prohibitions (namely, as long as he is, plus one; that is, a four-year-old child will well remember only five zarets), therefore, instead of prohibitions, it is better to use the alternative method.
Step 5
Parents looking to raise a happy and fulfilling child should choose a parenting style based on patience and love.
Step 6
Avoid corporal punishment. To understand that this is not a way to solve problems, go, for example, to the site i-parent.ru.
Step 7
Do not order the child, but negotiate with him. Ask politely to fulfill your requests.
Step 8
Introduce restrictions. But they have to act every day. And not so that today it is possible, and tomorrow it is impossible. At the same time, there should be as many restrictions as the child can remember. On average, this amount is equal to the child's age + 1. For example, if the child is 4 years old, he can remember 5 restrictions.
Step 9
Tell your child that you love him at least five times every day. Hug and kiss the same number of times.
Step 10
Find an opportunity to devote your time only to your child every day. If you are busy with work almost all the time, at least have time to read bedtime stories. And be sure to make up for this weekend interaction.
Step 11
Teach your child to enjoy life, develop a sense of humor in him, talk more often about what happiness is, every evening remember what the last day brought wonderful. These skills are much more important than reading and counting. This will be taught at school. But if the child in the family is not taught to enjoy life, then it will be very difficult to acquire this skill.
