Strong feelings for an already busy girl is not a reason to give up and suffer in silence. On the contrary, you must try to win her heart. Unless, of course, she is already married. There are many recommendations on how to do this, but none guarantee 100% of the result. Try different ways, you need to find your own approach to each girl.
Instructions
Step 1
Accurately and unobtrusively get to know the girl when she is alone. If you know for sure that she has a boyfriend, you need to act carefully. Don't try to ask her out right away, find out all the details about her, and confess your feelings. The purpose of the first conversation is to find out how the girl will react to such an acquaintance. If she accepts friendship and agrees to continue communication, this is a good sign. If not, it will be much more difficult to achieve the goal, but still real.
Step 2
During the first acquaintance or later, the girl will try to put an end to the relationship, arguing that she already loves the guy and does not want extraneous relationships to compromise her. In this situation, it is necessary, without insisting on anything, to try to translate everything into a joke, to let her understand that there is no reason to strain. And after a while, set up a "completely random" meeting and try to continue the communication as if nothing had happened. At first, do not show that you are madly in love with a girl. If you can't control yourself, meet less often.
Step 3
Do your best to get to know her girlfriends. Become a good companion for them. First, her friends will help form a positive opinion of you. Secondly, from them you can learn as much as possible about the object of love. Thirdly, friendship with them will become a reason to meet with your beloved more often. Do not hesitate that your beloved will see you in the company of other women. Until you conquer it, it won't matter. On the contrary, she needs to see that other girls like you, and especially her friends.
Step 4
Read more books about the psychology of love, about female psychology. They will help not only build relationships correctly, but also develop erudition. And with an intelligent young man, the girl will never get bored. They say that one of the greatest psychologists of the female soul was Stendhal. In them you can find answers to many questions, although they are not so easy to read.
Step 5
Give gifts and favors regularly. You can give anything from flowers to jewelry. It is important that the gift is enjoyable and does not oblige the girl to anything. Gifts in any case should not be expensive, provocative or clearly hinting at something. Poems make a very good impression on the girls. If you can't compose anything yourself, write just a beautiful poem without attributing authorship to yourself.
Step 6
Try not to let her current boyfriend know until the last moment that you are trying to beat the girl off. Sooner or later, of course, he will find out. But do not sort things out with him - just do not communicate with him. You can't speak badly about him, this can negatively affect the relationship of the beloved to you. After all, she is still with him, and will protect him. Also, don't try to dissuade a girl from her current boyfriend. She must decide for herself whom she loves.
Step 7
Having decided to achieve reciprocal feelings from your beloved, prepare for the fact that there will be moments of despair. But do not deviate from the goal. If you go down one step, you will have to overcome it again. Friends and family will probably try to dissuade you - do not listen to them. Tune in only for the positive!
