The guy and the girl liked each other, they started an affair. But suddenly on the horizon appeared the former beloved of the young man, who decided to play the role of the notorious dog in the manger: since he is no longer with me, let no one get it. She interferes in their relationship, constantly calls, intrusively imposes her society, whispers to the guy all sorts of nasty things about his current lover, and instills in the girl that as if the guy still loves his ex, and keeps in touch with her only out of pity and a sense of duty.
Instructions
Step 1
In no case do not pay attention to this jealous woman, that is, to the ex-girlfriend of your young man. Act as if she is not in the world at all. Ignore calls, SMS messages. Do not enter into conversations with her, do not let her into the house under any pretext. After a while, she herself will get tired of shaking the air in vain.
Step 2
In no case do not enter into a verbal skirmish with your former passion, and even more so into a fight. Remember, this will only alienate your boyfriend from you.
Step 3
Much in this situation depends on the girl, that is, on you. Sometimes it happens like this: she starts to get angry with her boyfriend. Found, they say, with whom to start romances before, now because of this problems and a headache. But this is a serious mistake. There is no need to reproach or accuse him. After all, the guy is already psychologically difficult.
Step 4
Support your lover, make it clear that you are not accusing him of the fact that the ex-girlfriend suddenly jumped out from somewhere like the notorious devil from a snuffbox. Assure that you do not attach any importance to her words, do not believe her inventions, and even more so you do not want to quarrel with him because of her. Your boyfriend should be confident in your feelings. He should see in you not only a sexual partner, but also a close, reliable person, a friend who will always understand, support, and give good advice. It is these women that are truly dear to men.
Step 5
In a word, behave with dignified calmness, so that literally in everything, unobtrusively, but convincingly, you emphasize your superiority over your former passion. Then the guy will surely disappear the last remnants of doubts: was he not getting excited, was he in a hurry to end that romance. It will become clear to him that there is no one better than the current girl, that is, you. And he will especially value your relationship, despite all the efforts of his ex.
