How often can you hear from a woman that her husband does not understand her, in the family for any reason, you just have to say a few words, a scandal breaks out. To prevent this from happening, you first need to take a closer look at how and what you talk about among yourself. Observing several rules on how to talk with your loved one, you can achieve mutual understanding and create an atmosphere of harmony and love in the family.
Instructions
Step 1
Remember that you are not talking with a subordinate, but with the person you are closest to and loved, never address him by his last name. Especially in an intimate setting. In public places and with friends, you can refer to him by name.
Step 2
In the circle of your family, do not address your beloved by name, but come up with an affectionate nickname that will evoke warm associations in him. You will immediately feel how much more pleasant it becomes for you to be in the company of your spouse.
Step 3
Do not talk about your loved one with disdain, even if he is not with you, but especially if you are both surrounded by colleagues and friends. This can humiliate him, and you will gain a reputation as a woman with a bad and evil disposition.
Step 4
When asking your loved one to do something around the house, do not start your request with reproaches and memories of what he did not do last year. Don't ask if he can fulfill the request, just ask. Even if he starts to grumble, it is not because he considers your request to be unfair, but because you have cut him off from some of his own affairs. As soon as he has the opportunity, he will do what he was asked to do.
Step 5
Do not swear, especially obscene. It is depressing.
Step 6
Every day, do not forget to ask your loved one how he spent the day, how is his health, what good happened. Let him answer with stereotyped phrases, but then you can teach him to be more frank using your example.
Step 7
When you walk down the street, try to touch his hand, smile in response to his gaze and jokes.
