By sending a baby to kindergarten, parents hope for a new round of his development and the formation of personal qualities, but as a result they receive frequent visits to doctors and constant sick leave.
The most common opinion explaining frequent illnesses is the systematic exchange of bacilli. Most of them relate to colds and are unable to hit a baby with good immunity. The reason should be sought in a decrease in the protective function of the body.
Colds with roots of nervous tension
Nervous tension provokes a weakening of the immune system. Outwardly, the child may not show any signs of anxiety or unwillingness to go to kindergarten, but the kindergarten will still be a load on the baby's nervous system. A large number of children and vigorous activities that can be interesting and enjoyable increase the child's fatigue. Constant overexcitation turns on the body's defenses, and the baby gets sick. You can reduce the likelihood of this effect by gradually increasing the time spent in kindergarten or by adding an extra day off in the middle of the week.
The reason is difficult adaptation
Difficult adaptation to kindergarten in the baby is manifested in the unwillingness to let go of the parents, constant questions about when he will be taken away, the lack of communication with other children. The result will not be long in coming - nervous exhaustion.
Many parents in this situation make a huge mistake, which in the future does not allow them to break out of the vicious circle. A sick child becomes overprotected and cared for. Uncontrolled hours of watching cartoons, the availability of favorite toys, the lack of rules and only favorite foods. As a result, illness becomes the joy of life.
And now the time comes again to go to the garden, where a team awaits, to which it is necessary to adapt, educators who will not run to fulfill the slightest whim and a number of rules. So what's going on? A week-long visit to the garden ends with illness. In some cases, the situation can drag on for months or even years. We will have to take measures that will make the sick leave "unprofitable" for the child. Just a few phrases from the list: "Sick kids don't watch cartoons", "Don't jump around the apartment, you're sick," then you can continue the list at your discretion. The disease should become boring. It is safe to say that after one or two relapses, "healing" occurs, and the child stops being ill.
"Nursing into illness" is observed in children with communication difficulties. Therefore, in the fight against systematic colds, do not forget that his social contacts require correction. If the kid could not find a friend in the garden, go with someone from the group for a walk on the day off. Having a friend in the group will certainly resolve the issue of adaptation.
