Relationships are built on trust. It is important that you can rely on your partner as on yourself, and there is no need to doubt his words. If your loved one regularly lies to you, this state of affairs cannot but be upset.
Lying as a defensive reaction
Oftentimes, lying can be a defensive reaction. As a child, the girls told their mother that they had already eaten the soup and learned their lessons so that she would not scold them. As adults, these same girls can tell their boyfriends that they will go to the library after classes at the university, although in fact they are walking with friends in a cafe. And although this should not be a complete excuse for lying on the part of the fair sex, think about it: perhaps you are putting too much pressure on your girlfriend, and she is lying for fear of making you angry? In the future, try to give the young lady more freedom, and then she will not need to do this. There is nothing seditious about visiting a cafe or cinema with classmates or going shopping with a friend.
Lies are like fear of hurting
If you love your girlfriend, the news that she started an affair on the side, and just the fact that the new employee turned out to be a very sexy young man, not burdened with a relationship, with whom you can happily flirt, will surely upset you. And the young lady understands this perfectly, therefore she comes up with stories about the boss who gave her an overtime task, and her grandmother, who urgently needed something at the pharmacy. What to do in such a situation, since the truth is accidentally revealed to you - to start sorting out the relationship, wait for the girl to mature and tell everything herself, or put up with it - it's up to you. In any case, for you, probably the biggest problem will not be lying, but cheating on a loved one.
Lying as a way to have fun
Children who could tell exciting stories about their meeting with aliens or how they, fighting bravely, were able to defeat a maniac and turn him over to the police, invariably gather a crowd of enthusiastic listeners around them. Such a habit can gain a foothold, and then an already adult girl, instead of honestly admitting that on the way from her mother she chatted with her friend and therefore delayed, will come up with a shootout with the taking of hostages. If this habit bothers you, but talking doesn't help, show your loved one with a visual example what her behavior looks like. The next time a girl asks you where the clean linen from the dryer went, feel free to talk about the pirates who boarded the balcony and took out all your washed socks and underwear. After several such stories, the young lady will certainly invite you to tell each other only the truth.
