After a long or not so long romance, you still broke up. And now, meeting on the streets or in common companies, you cannot understand how to behave next to your ex-boyfriend. You should not completely change your social circle and avoid it, you just need to work out the most suitable line of behavior for you.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't avoid meetings. Surely during the time that you spent together, you made a large number of mutual acquaintances and even friends. After parting, you should not think that you are prohibited from entering the old company. After all, you broke up with only one person, and did not quarrel with all your friends. Therefore, do not avoid meeting them. Perhaps the first time it is really better to be alone or hang out with only a couple of best friends, but do not shut yourself in for a long time.
Step 2
Don't be mad at your ex-boyfriend. At every meeting with him, you should not try to somehow offend him or humiliate him in the eyes of mutual acquaintances. Since you have been with him for a while, it means that he is not so bad. If you find it hard to see him, try to make contact and communicate less. Think of him as a good friend and nothing more. If you pay too much attention to him, trying to offend or offend, it will look ridiculous and stupid.
Step 3
Try to befriend your ex. There are different scenarios for the development of events. And friendship between former lovers is possible, especially if the separation was due to the mutual desire of both. If you decide that you cannot be a couple, this does not mean that you cannot become good friends, support and support each other. Of course, this option is not suitable for couples where one was left angry and offended after the breakup.
Step 4
Don't just think about yourself. Parting is not a matter of one person, but of two. Talk to your ex-boyfriend, ask him how he sees your future communication. If you were the initiator of the breakup, understand his unwillingness to see you around often. Perhaps it hurts him. Step aside for a while until fresh emotions subside. Remember that breaking up a relationship is not a very pleasant event anyway, so think at this moment not only about yourself, no matter how angry you are at your ex.
