Your boyfriend is gentle and caring, but when he gets into the company of his friends, he completely forgets about your existence? Do not make regular accusations, but rather start acting more carefully and wisely.
Instructions
Step 1
If after a couple of joint meetings after meeting you realized that you are uncomfortable or not interested with these people, you should not persist in pretending that you like. Firstly, your efforts will still be noticeable, and secondly, why should you adjust to others when you can spend this time with pleasure for yourself? Do not try to become "your own", it is better to just let him go for the evening. The main thing is to make it clear to the guy that you trust him, and with your friends behave politely and with dignity. And then they are unlikely to start treating you with disdain.
Step 2
Do not demand extra attention to your person. Especially if the friends of your beloved have not yet met their half. Someone will look at you with envy, someone will be sincerely happy, while others may ask you to "stop calf tenderness." In some ways, they will be right, because this is a meeting of old friends, and not your intimate date in full view. Of course, no one has canceled the warming hugs yet, but let them be unobtrusive for the rest.
Step 3
If meeting with friends has begun to take away most of the time you previously spent on each other, reconsider your behavior. Perhaps the guy doesn't want to go home for some reason. Maybe you have become too picky or stopped listening to each other. Try inviting his company home, making them pizza or sandwiches, and spending time together. Try to relax and for at least one evening not boss around the guy and not grumble about the crumbs left after the visit of friends on the floor.
Step 4
Don't try to turn a guy against a friend and vice versa. Instead of getting offended at each other and parting forever, they both think about why you want to quarrel with them so hard. Most likely, the result will be clearly not in your favor. After all, your boyfriend and his friend must have known each other for a long time, but you appeared in his life much later. Therefore, it is logical to assume that the guy will part with you faster than he will stop communicating with his friend.
