Betrayal is rarely expected, and when it is committed by the closest people, it becomes a real shock. Adultery has many reasons and prerequisites, but it is the wife's betrayal from the psychological and moral point of view that is more subtle and ambiguous. This behavior of a woman is perceived by society more sharply, and there is a very definite explanation for this.
In our society, according to established traditions, the wife is considered the constant guardian of home comfort, family and relationships. It is on women's shoulders that the responsibility for harmony and harmony between spouses falls, therefore, often the reproaches associated with failures in marriage also rush towards the wife.
The reasons for male adultery most often lie on the surface and are easily explained, but this behavior on the part of the spouse almost always has deep roots.
Cardinal differences
It is believed that usually a woman decides to commit adultery not because of physiological needs or sexual dissatisfaction in the marital bed. The basis of such an act is rather psychological factors. If the wife does not feel care and love from her husband, then the most usual way to replace the spiritual emptiness will be to search for these feelings in the arms of another man. However, in this case, adultery will indicate a deep crisis in the relationship between the married couple.
That is, female infidelity is evidence that the family is falling apart and that the wife is unhappy. Whereas a man can decide to betray simply because of a physiological attraction, having absolutely no complaints about his spouse, although this behavior can hardly be called normal and correct. But this indicates a fundamental difference between the reasons for male and female infidelity, which means that if the wife decided on it, then it is likely that the marriage came to an end.
Public opinion
It so happened that publicly or covertly, but society condemns the numerous love affairs of a woman, and even more hobbies on the side. Until recently, a girl who allowed herself an intimate relationship before the wedding was considered a "shame of the family" and was declared a "walker", and it was unforgivable to cheat on her husband.
All this invisibly leaves its imprint on the perception of female infidelity as such, since subconscious attitudes about the inadmissibility of such behavior are triggered. For some people, the image of the mother, the guardian of the home and family, is so prevalent that it deprives a woman of any right to show weakness or make a mistake.
Effects
The husband is the most acute for her wife's betrayal, and this is quite understandable. However, the problem of betrayal is aggravated by the fact that a man is rarely able to forgive his woman for such an offense. Such an incident for a spouse can become overwhelming, since a wounded man becomes rather a laughing stock, but a woman who has caught her faithful is usually pity and support. This does not mean that it is easier for her to survive betrayal, but traditionally it is believed that a wife should forgive in the name of preserving the family, although this is fundamentally wrong.
Regardless of the reasons, any betrayal is pain and suffering for a loved one, therefore it is difficult for both men and women to survive betrayal.
