Cheating on a loved one is a serious blow to the relationship in a couple, to a devoted soul mate, to trust, love and everything else that binds a couple. But despite this, the statistics are relentless: 3 out of 4 men are unfaithful to their women. Forgive or part - this is the main question that arises before deceived women when they find out the truth.
It is necessary
- To survive the betrayal of your husband, you need:
- -Certificate of divorce (in some cases);
- -new set of lower cords;
- -a ticket to some exotic countries;
- - money for consultations with a psychologist;
- - money for a beauty salon.
Instructions
Step 1
When a woman finds out about cheating, the first feelings that she experiences are pain, resentment, anger and a desire for revenge. But psychologists say you don't need to be categorical right away. Better to sit down and think. After all, treason in most cases is a sign that the old warm relationship has disappeared in the couple and something has changed.
Step 2
First, men are very jealous of their wife's appearance. If a woman ceases to take care of herself, dissolves and does not want to pull herself together, then sooner or later the husband will find his ideal on the side. If the wife constantly throws tantrums at home with breaking dishes, the man will leave the place where he is more comfortable. If you realized that his betrayal was part of your fault, and you do not want to lose him, then there are several rules that will help you survive the betrayal of your loved one.
Step 3
First you need to distance yourself from the situation. Sit to think. But do not engage in self-criticism in order to come to the conclusion later: "It is I alone who is to blame for everything!" You just need to present the situation as if from the outside in order to really assess why this happened. Then you need to pull yourself together. What kind of reaction does the cheater expect? That's right - a scandal. Don't make scenes. Better to take time out for yourself exactly one week. At this time, you can go somewhere where you really wanted to, but did not succeed. And there you should think again about how you will behave further. Why exactly for a week? Because a man needs just so much time to first realize his guilt, then understand how bad he is without you. If more time passes, and you do not return, he will already learn to live alone, and the separation will no longer seem so scary to him.
Step 4
The next item will be "treat yourself". Indeed, it’s all the time to think only about where to buy what products, what new clothes are needed and about other household little things. Remember that you are a woman. And the woman is attractive. The second way to survive the betrayal of her husband is to go first to the beauty salon, and then to the shops. The main thing is not to be afraid to take risks and completely change your image. After all, your appearance has already become so familiar to him that it is very unexpected to see you new for him.
Step 5
If it is still heavy in the chest, but there is a lump in the throat, then cry and scream to your heart's content. While you are alone. Let all the negativity go away with tears. It will get easier.
Step 6
Are you back, forgiven? Now spend as much free time together as possible. As before, in my youth. Try to be more interested in his affairs. Find a hobby and discuss with your husband. So that he knows: you have interests besides your family. Then he will again be interested with his wife, and not with his mistress.
Step 7
And the main rule: if you have forgiven, then you do not need to constantly remember the fact of treason. Introduce new habits and traditions with your spouse. Be new to him every time. And then he will not need to look for an interesting, bright and smart one on the side.
