Quarrels are an integral part of a relationship. And it's good if partners are working to eliminate the causes of scandals and breakups. Namely, it is worth thinking about them before returning a loved one.
Instructions
Step 1
Why was there a quarrel that led to the fact that the beloved left? What you said or did was so serious that the only way out was to drop everything and leave. Think about it. After all, it may well turn out that the quarrel was provoked by a man precisely for the sake of a break. In this case, do not rush to return it, take time out and consider the situation.
Step 2
If you really hurt your loved one so much that he could not find the strength to stay, try to calm down first. You should not take any action on a hot head. Give yourself and him time to cool down. Then send your loved one a message asking them to meet and talk. If he does not answer, it means that he is not ready to communicate, wait a little longer. Later write another SMS. Do not forget to tell that you regret the quarrel, repent of what you did, and love very much. Ask for forgiveness. After such a message, a loving partner will not refuse a meeting.
Step 3
When you talk to your loved one, the first thing to do is admit your guilt. Say you didn't think your words or actions would have such an effect. Use a feminine trick, pretend you don't remember exactly what the conversation was about. A loving man who wants to return will not remember the conflict. It is enough for him that you have repented. And promise not to do that again, and next time be sure to think before you say something to your partner.
Step 4
After a frank conversation, seal the truce with a delicious dinner. A little alcohol will not hurt. This will help you relax and forget about the conflict. Just don't find out what started it all. Otherwise, resentment may flood again. Talk about abstract topics and surround your loved one with attention and care. And if after the conversation he still had doubts about your sincere repentance, then after a romantic dinner they will completely evaporate.
