No matter how people love a friend, no one is immune from quarrels. If your loved one is dear to you, then you need to learn to quarrel constructively.
1. Avoid insults that degrade the dignity of a loved one (you will regret it later, and he will remember this insult for the rest of his life).
2. Never go into discussion of relatives, especially the mother.
3. Don't compare him to other men.
4. Do not criticize a man's mental abilities and his success at work.
5. Do not generalize ("You never succeed", "You always throw things around").
6. Instead of "You are doing wrong" say "I hate when you do this."
7. Do not let them belittle and insult you. Remember, you are partners, which means you have equal rights in a relationship.
8. If you are both at the limit and are ready to tell each other too much, then it is better to just leave the room, take a walk on the street. So you calm down yourself and let your loved one pull himself together.
If conflict is inevitably brewing in a relationship, consider it a reason for serious conversation and renewal of the relationship. Sit down at the negotiating table and calmly discuss the accumulated mutual claims.
never put off resolving the conflict until later, the sooner you understand each other, the better.
And remember, hushing up problems is not the best way out, because sooner or later they will return. Two loving people can always come to an agreement and find a compromise.
