Surely every family knows what a quarrel is. Quarrels are different - from offended silence to a loud scandal, or even to assault. But it's worth knowing that even the quietest spat leaves a mark on a relationship. Therefore, you need to learn how to prevent them.
Very often people accumulate some claims to each other, keep them silent, and discontent accumulates so much that one awkward movement can cause a storm of indignation. The second side, on which all this pours out, rightly tries to justify itself, but it turns out even worse. In order not to make an elephant out of a fly, it is simply necessary to discuss any discontent. Minor remarks will replace a major quarrel, in which not so much the spouses themselves suffer, but their children.
But, even if the quarrel could not be avoided, you must not allow her to destroy the whole relationship. You can't mix everything up in one heap and remember all those mistakes that happened over the years. These blunders may have already been corrected, after them there was a completely peaceful family life, why stir up the old?
Another eternal mistake is that when quarreling, spouses try to hurt each other as painfully as possible. And this does not solve the problem, does not eliminate the causes of the quarrel, but most likely, on the contrary, causes a reaction from the defense and even stronger accusations fly into the attacker.
No matter how angry the spouses are when they quarrel, it is imperative to control your tongue. The phrases thrown in the heat of "yes, you bow-legged!"
Everyone has mistakes and mistakes, but you need to learn to forgive them, draw conclusions, change, and most importantly - take care of each other.
