Conflicts and quarrels are almost inevitable in any, even the most idyllic relationship. If you conflict correctly, without crossing certain boundaries, then you will not have to put up with it later - all misunderstandings will be clarified and settled immediately. But if, nevertheless, there was a serious quarrel and you do not want to lose your loved one at the same time, there are simple tips on how to quickly make up.
As folk wisdom says, the first to be reconciled is the one who loves the most. Be the first, this is not a sign of weakness, but evidence of strength of mind and love. Generosity, the ability to admit one’s wrong or to forgive the weakness of another, the desire to be the first to reach out are wonderful qualities that cannot but be appreciated by your loved one.
If you understand that you are definitely the culprit of the quarrel, do not force your loved one to suffer from resentment, ask for forgiveness as soon as possible. The sword does not cut off the guilty head, again the people say.
Find the strength to apologize for harsh words flying out in the heat, even if you don't feel guilty about the cause of the argument. Talk about your feelings with your loved one calmly, kindly. Be sincere, do not be afraid to say how much you love him and how hard it is for you to be in a quarrel.
If you know about the irascibility of a loved one, do not initiate reconciliation immediately after an argument, let him cool down. Otherwise, you may unwittingly provoke a new outburst of anger.
If your loved one is offended for a long time, then show patience and tact. Maybe it’s better to leave him alone for a while. And then give him signs that you are ready for communication and reconciliation, perhaps even through envoys.
A bouquet of flowers is a traditional, but no less wonderful way for quick reconciliation with your beloved woman! Or you can show your imagination and use unusual techniques: for example, trample on the snow under the window of a woman dear to you, a declaration of love or order the services of a climber with flowers or a bunch of balloons.
