The question of a possible betrayal torments not only jealous wives, from time to time he visits women who are confident in their life partner. Anxious guesses keep you awake? Try to see if you have a real concern.
Instructions
Step 1
Try not to read your husband's SMS, do not follow his connections in Odnoklassniki. The habit of following can become deeply ingrained in you, and even innocent acquaintances of your spouse will raise suspicion. In addition, it will be difficult for you to make excuses if he guesses your maneuver.
Step 2
Just watch your spouse's behavior. If suddenly he has new hobbies, do not rush to annoy that he has completely lost interest in you. Offer to give him a lift to his destination - a fitness club or lecture hall, where he now disappears day and night.
Step 3
Then you just have to sign up for a trial lesson in aqua aerobics in the same club, without informing your husband about it. You are not doing anything shameful, you are just improving your health. And the fact that you saw your spouse seeing off a pretty blonde is pure coincidence. See what he has to say in his defense.
Step 4
New connections are often made at work. Make friends with your husband's coworkers or drop by his office unannounced at the end of the day. Tell me that you miss me. You will understand whether he is really delayed by late rush jobs or romantic candlelight dinners.
Step 5
Don't neglect shared companies. Perhaps old acquaintances are aware of the details of your spouse's personal life. It will not be difficult to find out the name of the rival from them.
Step 6
If due to anxiety you have completely lost sleep and appetite, decide on an extreme measure - hire a private detective. However, if your suspicions are unfounded, and the detective confirms this, visit a psychologist. It will not be superfluous to understand why you are so worried about your husband's loyalty.
Step 7
The best way to find out your opponent's name is by direct conversation. It is impossible to hide the real feeling, if an affair on the side threatens your family well-being, the spouse will not be able to hide anything. If, like a partisan under interrogation, he refuses to talk about treason, do not insist. Perhaps his hobby is purely platonic and will pass quickly.
Step 8
When deciding on drastic measures, ask yourself if you are ready to know the name of the potential destroyer of the family hearth. Maybe you shouldn't give vent to your curiosity, because sooner or later it will fade away, and living, feeling the bitterness of a loved one's betrayal, is not at all easy.
