If your spouse is attracted to another woman, and you are not going to give up and let him go, try to analyze your family life. You must understand what attracted him to that woman and what you lack. Rekindle the spark in your relationship, and you will be able to return your loved one to the family.
Instructions
Step 1
If you receive unpleasant information about your husband's mistress, you should not get depressed, and even more so immediately apply for a divorce. Do not give pleasure to the lover. She, most likely, is exactly what she wants. It is even possible that she will deliberately create situations when you find out about cheating. Moreover, it is impossible to arrange hysterics, scandals and showdowns in a raised voice. This will only alienate your spouse more from you, and this will not solve the problem.
Step 2
Think about whether it is worth talking about your guesses at all. If a man does not say that he has fallen out of love and wants to leave the family, then he either just started a meaningless affair, or has not yet made a final decision. Telling him about your guesses, you can push him to leave for another family.
Step 3
The best thing in this situation is to work on the mistakes in your relationship. Do not pity and do not justify yourself, because a man "goes to the side" in the event that he lacks something in the marital relationship.
Step 4
If your passion has disappeared, and the relationship has become even and boring, arrange for your spouse a romantic evening with candles, a delicious dinner, a slow dance, etc. Remember what you "hooked" him with, that he wanted to see you as his wife, and try to return the past.
Step 5
Prove to him that you are better than the woman he is attracted to. Buy a new stunning dress, do an unusual hairstyle (change your hair color or length) and go with your friends to a cafe. But do not overdo it in the desire to make your spouse jealous of you. Do not cross the line so as not to completely ruin the relationship. He just needs to understand that you are a beautiful woman and will not be left alone, that you are sexy and other men like you. Men are owners, and he will certainly look at you with different eyes and be afraid to lose.
Step 6
Be tolerant. Surround him with even more care and attention, spoil him with your favorite dishes more often, take an interest in things at work, express sympathy and support if necessary. He must understand that no one can understand and appreciate him as you do.
Step 7
Go on vacation with the whole family (along with children). You can pull him out of this vicious circle for a while: wife, he, lover. He will have the opportunity to make sure once again that only in the bosom of his family he can be truly happy.
