A homeless woman can suddenly appear in the life of every woman. The departure of a beloved husband to his mistress destroys the familiar world and you have to make a not very simple decision - to reconcile or try to return your spouse.
Instructions
Step 1
Decide what you want - return your husband to the family or let him go in order to find a more worthy man. Such a decision is quite difficult, since in several years of marriage the husband became a close and dear person for you, and on the other, he turned out to be a traitor in an instant. Not every girl is able to forgive treason and trust her husband again.
Step 2
Get your husband back. If you decide that this person is dear to you, you cannot imagine your future life without him, try to fight for your love and happiness. First, talk to your spouse calmly and find out the reason for leaving. When talking, don't blame or complain. Show that you recognize his freedom and that you are not going to claim anything, but are simply trying to understand the situation and find out your mistake. When you know the reason for the disagreement, try to resolve it. Try not to stop communicating with your spouse, but do not forget to behave with dignity when communicating with him, be friendly and benevolent.
Step 3
Start life from scratch. Don't idealize your ex-husband. Cross your spouse out of your life; in conversation with friends, relatives and acquaintances, avoid any topics concerning him. You no longer need to know what happened in his life.
Step 4
Try to make, if not renovation, then at least rearrangement in the apartment. By doing business, you will distract yourself from sad thoughts, and the changed housing will remind you less of the unfaithful husband. Things that, in one way or another, remind of him, it is better to distribute to friends. And your joint photos, where you were still happy, take them out of sight or throw them away.
Step 5
Try not to be alone - go with friends to a cafe, theater, or sign up for courses. Being busy every day, a change of scenery, new experiences, will help to distract from problems. Don't ignore other men. At first, it may be unpleasant for you to even look at young people, let alone new acquaintances. But still, over time, you need to re-learn to build your personal life, to trust men. Try not to compare your new boyfriend to your ex-spouse.
