So many years together. You never thought that one day everything could change. The husband is behaving somehow strangely, and doubt creeps in: has he found someone on the side? Many men think that they can lead a double life, and the girlfriend of life will not guess about it. But a loving heart senses a catch, and women's investigations are clever and accurate.
Instructions
Step 1
Realize why you need to look for the fact of treason and a mistress? After all, as you know, he who seeks will find. A woman, if she loves a man, secretly hopes that after the "investigation", life will return to its former course. That, in fact, the beloved did not even think to go to the side. And he only loves her alone. And everything can happen differently. If your fears are confirmed, will you be prepared to experience pain, shock, frustration? It will be necessary to start living in a different way. Knowledge can make a difference. Perhaps you want to compare yourself with "her" and understand what is she better at? Stop yourself right away: this is a woman who chooses a partner from the position of "better", a man starts a relationship with his mistress only because she is "different", not like you.
Step 2
Observe your husband's behavior. If you have been together for a long time, then you already know his habits and character. When a man has an "optional activity", and he hides it in every possible way, then this will certainly come to light through tension. The husband may become overly irritable or overly secretive. He will react painfully to viewing his mail or messages on his mobile phone. Meeting two women at the same time often breaks plans and agreements, it is difficult for him to plan the time that you will spend together. A man may have sex with you less often, not answer phone calls in front of you, and avoid hanging out with mutual friends. All these moments may indicate that the man has another woman.
Step 3
Talk to your husband. Tell him that you are concerned about his behavior and his situation. Convey to him the feelings that you are experiencing. Try to find a constructive way out of the situation together.
Step 4
If the husband denies everything, but the facts are there, you can get into his mail or look at his mobile phone as evidence to yourself. As a rule, if someone is on the side, then traces are found. It is easy to find a person by the found phone number. On social networks, you can see what his mistress looks like. You can even call her and chat in a friendly way: you do have common topics.
Step 5
Chat with mutual acquaintances. As a rule, a bunch of well-wishers appear, striving to open their eyes to what is happening and tell the whole truth. Perhaps you are lucky and they will even tell you who "she" is.
Step 6
Hire a detective. Now the services of spying on people are provided by specialized agencies or private detectives, many of them even have a license for this type of activity. Within a few days you will have evidence or denials in the form of photographs and evidence.
