When a family is faced with cheating, pain and anxiety are indispensable. Very often a woman experiences her husband's departure to his mistress so much that she wants only one thing: to return him at all costs. Sometimes it's much easier than it sounds. However, you must remember that your relationship will never be the same again.
Instructions
Step 1
Assess the situation. When it comes to a fleeting affair that is easy to end, you are at your side. However, there are often cases when a married man meets another woman and realizes that he wants to be with her always. Attempts by his wife to return him may be crowned with success, but they are unlikely to bring happiness to the family.
Step 2
Keep calm. If you nevertheless decide to return your loved one to the family, tears, tantrums and scandals will only aggravate the situation. You can cry alone, but you should not do it in front of your spouse. However, ostentatious fun is also useless. You must demonstrate a willingness to engage in constructive dialogue rather than exhausting clarifications.
Step 3
Don't show your spouse that you want him back. Demonstrate that you are going through, and his betrayal is painful and excruciating for you, but at the same time your life has not stopped, the world around has not collapsed. In no case be intrusive, do not call or track down. Try to arouse interest, respect, and desire in your husband to return yourself.
Step 4
If you know the identity of the mistress, collect minimal information about her. You shouldn't go too far and find out all the smallest details, you definitely don't need them. However, knowing who you are dealing with is unlikely to be superfluous.
Step 5
Focus on the sweet moments of the past. Honeymoon, trips to the sea, courtship period, funny situations: you can think of all this sometimes and as if by chance. Try to do this when your spouse is in a good mood.
Step 6
Change your image, but not drastically. Get an interesting haircut, update your wardrobe, be sure to get rid of old home clothes and buy new beautiful things. Changes like these will give you confidence and make your husband look at you differently.
