People meet and part. It is worse when the separation occurs after many years of marriage. A woman, being married, simply does not appreciate what she has. It is known that everything is cognized by comparison. And, left alone, the ex-wife understands that the divorce was a mistake, but nothing can be returned. However, that's how to say it. There are no hopeless situations, sometimes in such cases the exit is in the same place as the entrance. Oddly enough, divorce, with the right attitude, can even strengthen the family.
Realizing that the breakup was a mistake, do not rush to look for meetings and send SMS to your ex-husband. Men, contrary to popular belief, take these things hard. Let his "wounds" heal, recover from such stress.
When giving your ex-spouse a break, do not miss the moment when he begins to get used to his new position. Keep your finger on the pulse of events and remember that his new position is much more advantageous than yours. After a divorce, a woman becomes abandoned, even if she was the initiator. A man, on the other hand, turns from a busy person to a free one.
Do not under any circumstances interfere with his meetings with children. Some women refuse this to ex-husbands under the pretext of a negative influence on the child, in fact, this is just a way of revenge, a desire to make it more painful. If you take such a step, firstly, you should forget about restoring your family, and secondly, your ex-spouse will turn into your sworn enemy.
Try to have dad and children meet at your home, but do not seek to be present as an overseer. Keep yourself busy with something useful, such as making something delicious for tea. Be easy to talk to. You need to make your ex-husband comfortable in the house.
The child will definitely ask questions: why does not dad live with us? Don't cut it off. On the contrary, explain everything that is accessible to his understanding, speak well of your father. After all, he will definitely pass this on to his father, after all, this is what you need, right?
Tidy yourself up, that is, change your hairstyle, style, wardrobe. Relax at a resort. Remember, you must look cheerful, rested, and beautiful. Your eyes should be shiny, which is why try not to cry.
Speaking on this topic, it is worth emphasizing that the sooner you realize that the divorce was a mistake, the easier it is to restore the old relationship. The easiest way will be for those women who initially behave correctly, that is, they do not offend their husbands, do not arrange tantrums.