For any normal woman to learn that her husband has a mistress is a great shock. The deceived spouse is going through a whole storm of feelings: a burning resentment, anger, a desire to take revenge on both her mistress and her husband. This is understandable and natural, because there is hardly a girl who will accept treason with cold-blooded calmness.
Instructions
Step 1
If you find out that your husband has a mistress, try to calm your emotions first. There is no need to arrange a tantrum, a scandal. Sit down and calmly think: do you want to keep the family? Often, despite the offense, a woman still loves her spouse and does not want to ruin the family union.
Step 2
In no case do not resort to the help of all kinds of "sorcerers", "hereditary magicians" and other charlatans who promise a one hundred percent guarantee of a lapel or targeting damage to the mistress. Remember that you are just throwing your money down the drain.
Step 3
Overcome the desire to physically deal with your husband's mistress, even if everything inside is bubbling with indignation, and your hands are itching to "teach this bastard a lesson." Do not stoop to insults at the homeless woman, do not humiliate yourself in her eyes, and even more so in the eyes of your husband! Be a wise woman.
Step 4
Likewise, you should not take revenge on your spouse's mistress in more sophisticated ways. For example, to disseminate information defaming her, especially among her relatives, friends and acquaintances. Moreover, do not call her, do not threaten. In most cases, this will only lead to even greater cooling of the husband and his distance from you.
Step 5
Do not press on pity, trying to explain to her how badly and unworthily she acts, taking a married man out of the family. At best, the mistress will be embarrassed, even experiencing some remorse. Remember that she can laugh at you with malevolent triumph.
Step 6
Try again to become for your spouse the best, beloved, beautiful and desirable woman in the world. To do this, take a close look at your mistress, and objectively. Make every effort to find the answer to the question: "What did he find in her that I do not have?" And act depending on the answer. Maybe you need to become a little more affectionate, sexier. Remember: family happiness is in your hands.
