Even a calm, cold-blooded woman will surely be shocked to learn that her husband has a mistress. What can we say about temperamental, emotional ladies. The deceived wife is often strongly tempted to teach her rival a lesson, even to the point of assault. Humanly, this is understandable. But you should still make adjustments in your life.
Instructions
Step 1
If you want to save your family, you need to calm down and decide: how to behave with your husband's mistress in order to ultimately defeat her? The main rule: do not be led by emotions! Emotions can push you to do things that will harm you. Therefore, no matter how difficult it is, try to pull yourself together.
Step 2
Don't stoop to physically deal with your husband's mistress. First, it is simply unworthy of a civilized person. Secondly, she may be stronger, and then you will suffer, and her actions will be regarded as legitimate self-defense. Third, you can be prosecuted. Finally, you will look like a vicious jealous hysterical in the eyes of your husband.
Step 3
You should also not denigrate your mistress by spreading slander about her. And even more so, do not try to pity her, reproaching that she breaks up the family. Even if the mistress experiences embarrassment, awkwardness, she is unlikely to decide to end the relationship with your husband. After all, a woman dreams of personal happiness. In addition, she can parry your reproaches, complaints with an irresistible argument: "It is her own fault, it would be good for your husband, he would not cheat on you!"
Step 4
Defeat your mistress with her own weapon. Try to find the answer to the main question: why did the husband cheat at all, in what way is the mistress better than you? Assess your appearance honestly and impartially, analyze your behavior (including in the intimate sphere of life). Even if the mistress is younger and more beautiful than you - do not despair, you can still fix it.
Step 5
If your figure is "blurred", exercise, adjust your diet by removing fatty foods and sweets from your diet. Choose an original hairstyle, makeup, update your wardrobe. Decisively give up shapeless robes and worn-out house slippers, even if they are very comfortable. The husband should again see you as an interesting, beautiful woman.
Step 6
If you've always treated intimacy precisely as a conjugal duty, it is not surprising that your husband has a mistress. Try to behave in bed more relaxed, free. Find and read literature on sex techniques, if possible, go to a consultation with a sex therapist.
Step 7
If you were too demanding, domineering, picky, "suppressed" your husband, make drastic adjustments to your behavior. Watch yourself, try to become more calm, compliant, benevolent. And then, sooner or later, the husband will make a choice between you and his mistress in your favor.
