Situations often arise when love interferes with the peaceful friendship of young people. People in love are so absorbed in each other that they often do not notice the reproachful remarks of close friends and girlfriends. In order not to lose a relationship with a close friend in such a situation, it is important to build communication with her in a certain way.
Instructions
Step 1
Take your time to tell your bosom friend about your love. Tell us what you need to think about, understand yourself, your emotions, etc. It can be very difficult to cope with the overwhelming feeling of love: it "pours out" outward, and you want to talk and talk about your experiences. Keep a personal journal. Write down everything that comes to mind in it.
Step 2
Instead of bothering your friend with monotonous stories about your boyfriend, find a way to channel the flow of your feelings in the right direction, which is important for both love and friendship. For example, try writing music, poetry, painting, or singing. Love can reveal your talents and significantly affect your future life.
Step 3
Do not forget that your happiness can affect people around you in very different ways, in particular your girlfriend. She can be happy for you, and, conversely, jeopardize your relationship with her, begin to envy and worry about her relationship with the opposite sex.
Step 4
Talk to your friend and explain to her that despite the appearance of a young man in your life, you do not intend to lose your friendship with her.
Step 5
When you understand what place in your life your relationship with a guy is and how strong your feelings are, tell your friend about it, make an appointment, talk. If you are confident in the seriousness of your relationship with your boyfriend, introduce him to your friend. But do not let your girlfriend into your relationship with your beloved, keep her at a distance. Limit yourself to general signs of attention, but be warm and welcoming. If you value her friendship, let her know that you enjoy communicating with her, and you do not intend to lose her.
Step 6
Have a bachelorette party periodically. Such meetings will allow you to devote time to your friend, to relax, to confess and once again remind her that you have not forgotten about her, that you still consider her a loved one, despite the fact that you cannot devote as much time to her. how much they paid before.
