Many young people are afraid to approach the girl they like and get to know her. However, this is far from the hardest part. The most difficult thing is to maintain a relationship, it requires complete openness to your partner and work on yourself.
Instructions
Step 1
If you notice that your loved one has begun to move away, do not be offended and do not be silent. At this stage, mutual understanding can still be restored. Ask your loved one for a few minutes. It is best if the conversation takes place at home or in your favorite cafe. The familiar environment will allow you to relax and communicate frankly. Ask if the other half is doing well. Perhaps she has problems at home, with her studies, at work. And she does not want to initiate you in them only because she is afraid to upset. Say that she can reveal any secrets to you, you will not condemn her. Just really do not start reading morals right after the revelation. Try to understand the situation and think about how you can help. If you cope with the girl's problem, she will be very grateful to you, the load will fall from her shoulders. And the relationship will get back on track.
Step 2
If the reason for the detachment of a loved one is not in your own problems, but in your behavior, you will have to change yourself. Of course, you don't need to fully adapt to your partner, this will not help maintain the relationship. Just listen to his wishes. It's so easy to do something nice for your loved ones. Cute signs of attention are something that will keep and strengthen warm feelings.
Step 3
Remember that relationships need to grow. You can't act for months like you just met. Become more responsible. Be sure to tell your girlfriend where you are spending your time and with whom. Call her if you are late. Introduce your friends so that there is no cause for concern. This is not control as it might seem at first. All successful couples do this, where partners take care of each other.
Step 4
Always ask for forgiveness if you are guilty. Even a trifling offense can destroy a relationship. Just call and apologize. Or write a beautiful confession. All these actions will take five minutes at most. And it will take much longer to restore the destroyed world.
