You are in a long, happy relationship with the most beautiful girl in the world. You think that you no longer have secrets from each other, that there is complete trust between you. In such circumstances, many men think about expanding the family. But how to tell the girl about your readiness for such a responsible step?
Instructions
Step 1
Men are often afraid to express such desires directly. Most likely, they think that the expressed desire to have a child may sound silly or ridiculous. In fact, even a not fully formed idea of children is the most important moment in any relationship. These thoughts or desires indicate that your feelings are stronger than ever. This indicates that you are ready to spend your whole life with your woman.
Step 2
Before you express your desire out loud, think it over carefully. Ask yourself if your couple is ready for the typical challenges facing new parents? Are you ready to change the whole way of life? Will you cope with the changes that will inevitably occur in the psyche and body of the expectant mother? You must understand that your woman will need moral and physical support from you more than ever.
Step 3
Think about the material side of such a dramatic change in life. Do you have a place to live, will you have enough funds to buy the things necessary for the baby? Are you ready to really support your family while your companion is at home with her child?
Step 4
Prepare yourself for the need to visit doctors frequently, to visit counseling centers. Ask yourself if you are willing to help your woman with the housework. Are you ready to sacrifice your "young" freedom. You need to understand that having a small child will require you to give up sitting in a bar, from football matches, perhaps this will affect your career, since the number of business trips and even working hours (if you are used to overworking) will have to be reduced at first.
Step 5
If you have a solution to all these problems and answers to all such questions, you are ready to talk with your girlfriend. Think about what you are going to tell her. It is not worth mentioning your desire between times, in passing. Invite her to a good restaurant, surround her with care and as directly as possible, but gently tell her about your feelings and desires.
Step 6
A loving woman will most likely be delighted with such words and feelings on your part. Express your willingness to support her during pregnancy, briefly state your thoughts on possible difficulties. This will allow you to discuss all the angles and complexities. If the girl has any questions, answer them in detail and honestly.
