If you stop loving a girl, then talking about it can not be avoided. How to say that you have fallen out of love so as not to hurt her feelings too much? There are some tips to help you get out of this situation with minimal losses.
Not all relationships last as long as you want. And sometimes the moment comes when you need to tell the girl that your feelings for her have exhausted themselves and are over. But how to do that? How to tell a girl that he has stopped loving her so as not to hurt her feelings much and maintain friendly relations?
Not to wait
The big problem of our time is to keep the relationship dead. If your feelings for her have cooled down, you no longer love her, then you do not need to endure and wait for something. The situation will not be resolved by itself. You need to speak and speak directly. And, of course, only in person. Remember that breaking up by phone or text is bad form. Have the courage to tell her face-to-face that you no longer love her. To make the breakup less sad, do not use the formulaic phrase "let's be friends." Say that the girl is dear to you, that you wish her happiness, and that is why you give her freedom of choice, let her go. It will be more humane than lying, accusing of something and listing all her mistakes.
Dont lie
Do not lie to the girl in any way. For example, that you need time to think. If you really stop loving her, then do not delay and do not make excuses. Say directly that your love has passed, that you want freedom, and you want your girlfriend to be happy too. Tell us that parting is not the end, that it is rather the beginning of something new in life. For example, a new relationship. Don't be cruel and don't give too much hope to rebuild your relationship. Better tell that new horizons are opening up for the girl, that she can become much happier without you than suffering in a relationship without reciprocity.
Don't talk about reasons
Never talk about the reasons for your dislike, whatever they may be. Firstly, if your love has passed because of the wrong behavior of the girl, then it will offend her. Secondly, if another girl was the cause, then you shouldn't report it. You will only make it more painful. You can talk about the fact that your relationship, although it was good, unfortunately, has exhausted itself, but there is no one to blame for this. At the end of the day, you can take the blame on yourself to avoid hurting the girl further. Better to think that you are bad than looking for reasons in yourself and getting upset even more.
In any case, do not blame the girl for all the blame, even if the reason you stopped loving her is in her. Be a gentleman to the one you once loved. It was your choice, you must respect it.
