Parents are constantly worried about their children, even if they have grown up a long time ago. Sometimes misunderstandings between different generations make life difficult. How can you bring peace back to your home and make your parents' life more peaceful?
Instructions
Step 1
Think about why parents are constantly worried about you, on what grounds do conflicts arise? As a rule, they occur for household or psychological reasons. It is worth dealing with them.
Step 2
As for quarrels about unwashed cups and a dog with which someone forgot to take a walk, such problems can be resolved by agreeing on a clear division of household chores. If you don't like washing dishes, take on the laundry. The main thing is to make it clear that you are independent and responsible. Then your parents will not be afraid that you will be completely lost in the world around you.
Step 3
Very often, parents are not satisfied with the lifestyle of their children, even if they have long ago acquired their own families and went to another city. At a distance, the anxiety of dad and mom manifests itself even more strongly, because the imagination paints them terrible pictures - the daughter does not call, because she is ill, how is she there? Assuming the worst, parents stay awake at night and no longer expect good news.
Step 4
Call them more often, tell them how you are doing. Parents need to know how their child lives. You do not need to devote them to your problems unnecessarily, it is better to ask them about current events, take an interest in health. Do not leave them without information, even if you have no news, say a couple of encouraging words, and they will not need medicines for high blood pressure.
Step 5
Moms often do not like that their daughter cannot find a match for herself. Don't try to convince her that you feel great without your husband. Let mom remain unconvinced. Live your life, don't stir up conflict. Introduce her to your male friends, then she will understand that you are not alone at all. Translate all conversations about the need for marriage as a joke, over time they will stop exacerbating the relationship between you.
Step 6
Try not to raise your voice at your parents, do not blame them for anything, even if your childhood was far from ideal. If you realize that you are very nervous, reschedule the unpleasant conversation to another time. If the habit of talking in a raised voice becomes established, it will be difficult to get rid of it.
Step 7
Take the fact that your parents are worried about you for granted. Try not to complicate their life, give gifts, say warm words. Then they will become calmer, and peace and harmony will reign in your life.
