Has your girlfriend lost her sleep, appetite and does not even want to look in your direction? Is she alternately lethargic and apathetic, or feverishly aroused? Most likely, she is experiencing severe stress and is not ready to share her experiences with you. But, nevertheless, she needs help, and you should do it.
Instructions
Step 1
The feminine ability to panic even for the most insignificant reason is well known. No, this does not mean that your beloved is hysterical. Maybe she's just too sensitive, take it for granted.
Step 2
Use proven methods. Girls in critical situations show an increased interest in sweets. Stock up on cake and sweets, make tea. There is a chance that your beloved will share her problems with you, and you will suggest the right solution.
Step 3
If the situation is serious, sweets alone are not enough. Just in case, protect your beloved from alcohol and cigarettes in shock doses, arguing these tough measures by the fact that alcohol has not yet helped anyone solve an important issue. But it did harm as much as necessary.
Step 4
In the matter of bringing the girl to her senses, the joint viewing of films has proven itself well. First, you will distract her and thus calm her down a little. Secondly, by her reaction, you can understand what happened. For example, if she cries as soon as she sees a baby on the screen, carefully check the trash can - are there any pregnancy test packaging lying around?
Step 5
Use a clever trick - pretend that nothing is happening. Tell them that you have planned a joint kayak trip next weekend, and on Monday your dad is coming from Taganrog. How, is she not ready to accept it? What kayaks ?! Honey, did something happen? Hand her a handkerchief and get ready to listen.
Step 6
Don't be too intrusive when you start asking. Perhaps the issue is too delicate to discuss with a man. Don't ask for details, let her tell what she sees fit. Then proceed as appropriate.
Step 7
If, despite your best efforts, the girl continues to be secretive and nervous, relax and let the events take their course. Something really important will come out sooner or later, and little things will dissipate by themselves. The main thing is to let her know that she can count on your man's shoulder. And this argument will calm her down better than the most delicious chocolate in the world.
