Men have one of the most serious weaknesses - women. Sometimes quite unattractive men are very popular with women, while others, on the contrary, are smart, beautiful, pleasant, but for some reason, nothing in their personal life adds up. There are some mistakes that men very often make when seducing women.
Instructions
Step 1
Indulge her in everything. The most effective way not to get a woman's attention is to try to please in everything and do everything as she asks. Such men are called henpecked or rags. Women love to use them for their own purposes, but they will never respect them. Do not confuse henpecked and gentlemen. A gentleman always looks after a woman: he gives his hand when leaving the transport, moves a chair in a restaurant, helps to put on a coat - this is a normal manifestation of gallantry and care. The only difference is that in the first case, a man wants to get something from a woman in return, so he is ready to please her, just to please her; and in the second case, it is simply pleasant for a man to help a woman, but at the same time he does not expect anything in return.
Step 2
Turn a date into an interrogation. Many men believe that the more questions they ask a woman, the more pleasant she will be. Women love dialogue, but not when you move from one question to another. The ideal scenario for communicating with a woman is when you are attentive to the interlocutor, interested in her life, but at the same time you communicate on topics that excite both of you.
Step 3
Uncertainty. A woman is comfortable only next to strong men, and the point here is not at all in the muscles. They are only attracted to male leaders who have their own opinions and rules. They love men who know what they want and know how to achieve their goals. A man looks stupid who constantly asks a woman if she agrees with him. It is even worse if a man does not know what he wants, and every time he makes a decision, he needs approval or support. It is unpleasant for a woman to fill her head with questions all the time, think about where she will go next weekend, and what she will do. It will be easier and more pleasant for her to feel a man next to her who is ready to take responsibility for organizing general leisure. If any proposal of a man turns out to be unacceptable for a woman, then she will independently say it. Therefore, it is extremely important for men to understand that it is not a woman who should think about how they will spend the weekend, but a man.
Step 4
Trying to buy attention with gifts. Very often a man tries to appease his woman with gifts. Gifts should be sincere and wholeheartedly, absolutely free, no need to demand anything in return.
Step 5
It's too early to talk about your feelings. You cannot talk about your feelings at an early stage of communication.
Step 6
Don't know the difference between you. A man and a woman are very different. The difference lies in the understanding of the meaning of our life, and in words, and in behavior. It is impossible to convince a girl that she likes you: if she does not feel attracted to you, then all your attempts are simply useless. In life, many men do not understand this.
Step 7
Thinking that women are only attracted to money and handsome guys. A woman is looking for a chosen one for herself according to certain criteria and qualities. Both money and external data are not always included in these criteria or are not in the first places. If you do not have an outstanding appearance, in no case should you give up on yourself and think that you will never achieve a beautiful woman. The real reasons for success are not your money, but your personality and inner world, as well as the emotions that you are able to give.
Step 8
Behaving is unnatural. Nature has endowed a woman with a subtle intuition, so she hears the timbre of a voice, intonation better than a man. Therefore, women often know what you want from her. It often happens that a man on a date really wants to kiss a woman, and she already knows about it. Therefore, in no case should you behave unnaturally.
Step 9
Make her special. Many men rush into the pool headlong, while becoming subdued by a woman. They constantly think about their beloved, write sms, call. Such men fall in the eyes of a woman, and she feels that he is completely submissive, so she becomes bored.
Step 10
Stop courtship as soon as you have achieved it. As soon as a man likes a girl, he can stop courtship. In no case should this be done, a woman loves to be always achieved.
