In the process of upbringing, parents instill in children the necessary skills of politeness and communication, explain what is good and what is bad, but another important point is teaching the child to discipline and responsibility. Just don't be confused with punishment, discipline is a method to correct your child's behavior without yelling or aggression.
Instructions
Step 1
Establish a clear daily routine and try to stick to it. The kid should know that after an evening swim, sleep follows, and not noisy games - catch-up. The daily routine instills in the child a sense of stability and calmness. Do not break the usual daily routine without an important reason, otherwise the baby will start to be capricious, because you have already made concessions once, which means you will do it again.
Step 2
Don't ask the impossible. You must be sure that the child is able to follow your instructions. Presenting demands to children that they cannot fulfill hurts and hurts the child's psyche, and also creates a conflict situation. Make sure your little one does some simple household chores or entrust him with caring for a pet, so the little one will feel important and responsible.
Step 3
Determine the boundaries of what is permitted. Set reasonable and fair requirements and restrictions, the baby must know what is acceptable or unacceptable behavior, so you can avoid the child's feelings of injustice that children experience when they are punished for mistakes and mistakes or for some accidental offense.
Step 4
Be calm and confident in your actions. Children immediately feel the doubts of their parents and take advantage of it. Tantrums, disobedience and open rebellion are all tests of parental authority and resilience. If parents scream or show other signs of weakness, the child simply ceases to see them as reliable and trustworthy leaders. Remain calm and do not succumb to provocations, it is important not to overdo it with discipline, after all, love and care should be in the first place.
Step 5
Spend time with your children, communicate with them, because often disobedience and the desire to do everything in spite of parents is just a signal that children do not have enough love and attention. Be close to the children, help and guide them through life. Toddlers who are familiar with the discipline from an early age find it much easier to adapt and endure unpleasant life situations.